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But i would propose a change to that phrase to instead read…. The very idea that a relationship has equality is absurd to me. And who is the one to break the tie? Who is the one to relent? While i think there are relationships that may well be nearly equal in that both sides relent frequently, never is it completely equal. Which means that someone is in control and makes the decisions, and the someone else relents. That person making the decisions is the natural Dominant and the person who relents is the natural submissive.
This keeps it all in our version of balance. And it needs a reset. Or discipline. And in my opinion, the best reset is a spanking. Of course, i picked the ones i wanted to write about and ignored all the nah-sayers, so this is nowhere near official. Reasons to spank your wife….
Powerful people are mostly attractive and sexy. Think about some of the most influential people in society and even specific to your life. Odds are, they are confident, in control, Dominantand…. And if you have enough love in the relationship, you love her enough to correct the misbehavior.
And you love him enough to submit to the spanking. Spanking someone, done from a position of power is love. And yes, it i spanked my wife be a bit hard for the Dominant to do. For me, i am i spanked my wife Dominant woman in much of my outside-the-home life.
That may come as a surprise to some of you but it is true. At work, i am a boss. When things flow the way they should, i am calm. But how often does that happen? At home, i am NOT in control, nor do i want to be. And it typically throws me into a tizzy. Spanking restores the calm and reason. It centers me. It forces me to focus on just one thing…. Getting naked and baring your bottom for someone to see and spank requires intimacy.
Physically by showing yourself to him. Mentally by showing yourself to him. Yes, i said the same thing for both mental AND physical. You have to unclothe your physical self AND your mental self to submit to a spanking. So while you are unclothing and showing yourself to him, you show him you trust him enough to lead you, to guide you, and to be in control…. All the way back to the Bible times, it was clearly written and people accepted it as the way of life, that men and women are not equal.
And as such, discipline is necessary. When you love her enough and care enough to discipline, you care about keeping the love alive and well in your relationship. And when you love him enough, you will submit to a spanking because you will know that it is good for you both. We are four years along this journey; long enough to know the value of mutually agreed maintenance and thereby, consistency.
As a Dom it is so easy to let things slide, particularly when things are good — I mean really good. When there is contentment, happiness, love and even a bit of joy, in these strange times, why would one want to unsettle things with a spanking. For us, for a spanking to meaningful enough, it has to be forceful enough and last long enough; why would I want to do that when things are good.
You have just reminded me, with your carefully considered piece. Thank you. Like Liked by 1 person. I know B has felt the way you have about spanking. For both couples and at the time us this threw a real wrench in the dynamic over time. I always use the car maintenance analogy with B. It much more difficult to fix a problem once it surfaces. Like Liked by 2 people. Like Like. Often it started innocently enough, making decisions about the kids and home because that was the area they were most familiar and it went from there. One could certainly argue that if these men were naturally dominant that never would have taken place, but trust me these guys were.
I think dominance and submission is more based in action and while some people lend themselves to one side or another like exercise,it has to be acted upon to allow it to flourish. Willie — Your words had me thinking about nature vs nurture. I dunno! Anyway, as always, I value your comments and thank you!
You can slot that into nurture if you want. If you take dominance and submission and look at it as a talent for comparison sakeyou can say someone is naturally artistic, musically inclined, athletic, but that will only get them so far. It appears to be more about drive than ability. Willie — I wholeheartedly agree with all of this! Because the natural combined with the nurture ends up being a dynamic combo! So yes, one OR the other nature OR nurture will get most of us to where we want to be. So I enjoy your comments a lot because I tend to see things from a unique view!
Thank you! Marie, that was a skillfully, well written article. I cannot agree with you more and only wish that my husband would have a little talk with me and tell me to go into position for a spanking. I would gladly go get the belt and hand it to him to alleviate my high stress levels!! But me being the submissive, I am not allowed to do that unless its his idea. I hope you can also find a way too.
Marie I love love loved this article!!! I loved that you mentioned that dominant men are sexy. After consideration I now realize that almost all the men I have ever been attracted to I found dominant. And had this unintentional way to shove me into what I now call subspace. To the point where when I friend of my sister asked me to get him something when I was probably fifteen I lowered my eyes and said i spanked my wife sir to him. So he probably thought I was just nervous and southern.
I also love that i spanked my wife mention that you are also a dominant woman at work. I was a dominant in your face go get em tiger at school and now at work. And when I come home my version of a cold beer after work is being submissive. Grace, I love your comments. I am new Dom here. I regularly give my sub maintenance spanking twice a week to get her in the sub space for the week.
We have our sessions on a Sunday to set up for a good start for the week. I also give her one in a Wednesday to check in and get to finish off the week in the sub space. Sometimes I feel like moving the spanks to the tits on Wednesdays as these are quick sessions. What are your thoughts on this as a submissive?
Troy, I like all this. But some couples have it daily even, so I say if twice works for both of you, then go for it! I love this article. His power is definitely sexy for both him and me, it is a great way to get even more intimate. It always keeps me calm especially when I am stressed out have been disobedient.
I trust him totally but that grows with each discipline session. I know that I am giving everything to him but in return I am getting so much more back. The bible teaches us to be submissive to our husbands so we know there is a good foundation for what we do. I have always loved him and it grows each time he disciplines me.
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February 1, Marie. So the person who wears the pants in this family is NOT me! It grounds me, and restores the calm.I spanked my wife
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